Some how tonight brought back old memories.Things that i see daily reminded me of what had happen previously that involve another person that was once part of my life. Each one of them left something for me.Memories. The warmth love that i felt when i rested my head on your shoulder. The time you was taking care of me when i was hospitalised. The time when i couldn't walk home from college because of stomach cramp.The time when we always cooked supper together. The time when you came to my rescue when my rented house was flooded within during a heavy downpour midnight. The time when you cooked and clean for me and made me gain weight.
I use to sleep with your t-shirt whenever i missed you but I've thrown away because i know i have to move on.You have stayed too long in my memories. Your perfume caught my attention at 1st and yet i'm still keeping that bottle with me. I use to smell it whenever i missed you. It reminded of you. I used to hate your beard root because it scratch me every time you tried to kissed me but somehow the thoughts brought back sweet memories when at that time i hated it. You surprised me when we had agreed not to exchange valentine's gift for that year. You were there when i was working, so that you can see me reach home safely after that. You attend to my every wimps and needs even though deep down you are super exhausted. You always let me win during our arguments no matter how unreasonable i was being. You came home early just so you can see me reach home safely. You always find a time to accompany me to shop when you know I've been staying in the house for far too long.
We had our differences and it lead to the parting. When there's no commitment involved between both parties, things are easier to be cleared. Living together and parting after that, need time to re- adjust back your lifestyle. Living together as a couple and still living together after parting is really a hard time. Things were complicated. Everything was so wrong. Though is cleared but it still leave a nightmare image. It make me having second thoughts for every decision that i make now because it left a horror image of the outcome.
I regretted some of the things that I've done. But something within me was just looking for a reason to part. The action wasn't planned but somehow it seems the most right decision at that time. Perhaps i wasn't ready to be seriously involved. To the first four, i was with you because i do loved you. To the fifth, I thought you were right for me at that moment thinking to give it a try and i tried to love you which in the end i did loved you. The reason was so wrong to start off with. I've never told you this because i felt it might hurt you. You asked me before "why do i choose to be with you?". So now you have your answer. It was just so wrong of me.
Wise man once said, people that were hurt takes time to heal. How long? It depends on the individuals. I just got to learn to cope with my emotion and release it so that i could move on with my life again. The emotion scar as early as my first relationship was never heal as i choose to ignore it. Hiding it by starting another relationship when i was not even emotionally ready for it. Again and again till i lay out all my past relationship after him,only then did i realized my mistakes.
Could i love the same person forever? I don't know how to answer this question but i will try my level best. Anyway, it takes two hand to make a clap.